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Cassie is a smart dog. She's like that really smart kid in school who starts acting up because he's already reading 4 grade levels ahead of everyone else. So with Cassie I practice a line of training called, Nothing in Life is Free. I use it for everything from going in and out of doors, putting on leashes, saying good morning while I'm still in bed but most of all, at feeding time.

Cassie loves her food but I don't just put her food in the bowl and walk away. That would be too easy. Sometimes I start off slowly using a game similar to the "shell game" where I put a few pieces of food under some, but not, all of the bones. First she has to "find it" by smell, then she has to lift the top off in order to get to her food.

But usually dinner time is about Buster and Leo. Buster is on the left and Leo is on the right. (I didn't name them that, that's what they're called. The Buster cube and Leo.) Before she can have breakfast or dinner the first thing Cassie has to do is find wherever she has left Buster and Leo. She knows "find it" and she knows their names so I have her find Buster and tell me. She puts her paw on it and barks. Then I pick it up. Same thing with Leo. Once I put her food in them I put them on the floor and make her wait.


Cassie's release word is "danke" so before she can eat I'm saying things like wonka, fonka, bonka. I do a bunch of fake words and then throw in the real one. She pounces on Buster first and proceeds to roll him around the room until she gets all the food out. There's a bit of a maze inside Buster and she has to keep rolling it until the food works its way up to the top and out of the hole. Leo works a little differently. The holes are smaller and rolling doesn't work. She has to pick it up and throw it down to get a few pieces of kibble out.

 

Doing this has stretched her eating time from three minutes when she would just inhale everything in her bowl to about twenty minutes of working the puzzles to get the food out. It challenges her brain and she realizes that if she wants to eat, she's going to have to work for it.

Writing isn't easy. Sometimes you just have to be patient. You need to sit and wait, ignoring all the wrong words until the right words come along. Sometimes you know what you want to write about but you can't find the right vehicle for the story. You have to sniff around until you find it. Sometimes getting the right words down in the right way is like working those pieces of food out of the Buster cube. You turn them over and over again and only a few of the right words fall out but it's enough to keep you going. Sometimes the story fights you every step of the way until you want to throw it across the room. And maybe that's what you need to do, get mad at it because if you're mad, you've got your emotions involved and if you've got your emotions involved the story is going to reward you. Eventually.

There's no quick and easy path to writing a book or getting published or staying published. It all takes time.

Nothing in life is free. Not for dogs. Not for writers.


There are so many stories only you can tell.Tell them, please.



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jgurtler
May 27th, 2009 01:36 pm (UTC)
would you like to come to my house and train my dog :)
susanwrites
May 27th, 2009 03:58 pm (UTC)
LOL. I'd love to! I adore working with dogs but I have to say that having a food motivated one is much easier than not. My last dog was a Border Collie and also brillant but not food motivated and a pain in the rear to train.
barboconnor
May 27th, 2009 03:06 pm (UTC)
Once again, a fantastic essay! That is absolutely fascinating!!!! And such a perfect analogy. Brilliant.
susanwrites
May 27th, 2009 03:59 pm (UTC)
Thanks, Barbara. I think of you when I sit down to write these each week. I really need to make a video of Cassie as I give out the wrong release words. She's so funny to watch.
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susanwrites
June 1st, 2009 05:45 am (UTC)
hahaha. Shake it, baby, shake it!
(Anonymous)
May 28th, 2009 01:55 am (UTC)
Cassie's Buster & Leo
Wow! Finally my dieting answer! I always eat too quickly. Now I can trick myself into slowing down . . . thanks for the fun tip. Liz
lorrainemt
May 28th, 2009 04:53 am (UTC)
Great analogy, Susan! I especially like the image of words getting stuck in the Buster cube and a few falling out at a time. Gotta do a lot of shaking...
susanwrites
May 29th, 2009 04:28 am (UTC)
Yeah sometimes it takes a lot of shaking to get things going on.
(Anonymous)
May 28th, 2009 12:00 pm (UTC)
Cute Pet Antics and Writing
Hi Susan, I haven't seen a comment format like this one...but I wanted to let you know I visited and read your post. How cute! Who is training whom here? Love the bone detail and hiding the bits under...good luck on your writing.

I think the project is wonderful and I look forward to reading more of your work.
If you want to visit me, please come over to http://oasiswritinglink.blogspot.com <3
susanwrites
May 29th, 2009 04:29 am (UTC)
Re: Cute Pet Antics and Writing
Yes, who is training whom is exactly the question! Thanks for stopping by. I'll go over and check your blog out.
(Anonymous)
May 31st, 2009 03:48 pm (UTC)
Poe Likes This
Fascinating. You'll have her talking next.
susanwrites
June 1st, 2009 05:45 am (UTC)
Re: Poe Likes This
LOL...thanks, Poe!
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Who am I?I was born on the Cancer/Leo cusp and share a birthday with Ernest Hemingway and Robin Williams. The similarities don't stop there as I can go from depressed to ecstatic without ever passing go. I feel scared most of the time though my friends call me brave and I find it easier to believe in my friends than to believe in my own abilities to make what I want out of my life.

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